Build your self esteem with these tips

Finding the time to focus on you is not always easy when you have a busy life. There is the full-time job, the children, the social life that you are trying to keep up with, and then you are supposed to find time for you. The truth is that if you do not have some time for yourself, you will find that over time you begin to feel run down. You become someone different, moving further, and further away from the ideal version of yourself. This will affect your self-esteem. You need to take stock and rediscover yourself and who you want to be. Self-care is not only a nice thing to do, but it is also essential. Here are some ideas on how to build your self-esteem.

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Say ‘no’

This is one that will instantly make you feel better. If you are busy and are constantly being harassed by work colleagues to help them, or friends to go for a drink, saying no can give you that boost you need and will save you time too. Do not be a doormat for anyone, it is not your job to be a people pleaser, and no one respects it. Start asserting yourself and begin by saying no.

Address your image

Look in the mirror. Do you like what you see? If not, what can you do to change it? Self-image goes hand in hand with self-esteem. The truth is the only person whose opinion matters in this regard is yours. If having a bit of tummy fat does not bother you, don’t worry about it. But if it does, you should do something about it, like diet and exercise.

In the same way, if you have any other issue that bothers you, like crooked and yellow teeth, think about having a range of cosmetic dental treatments done. Think about it, do you want to cover your mouth up with your hand every time you laugh. Or never eat at a restaurant because you are embarrassed? This is your life. Take back control. A little bit of retail therapy can go a long way too. A brand new wardrobe can give you that boost you are looking for.

Cut out bad habits

We all have our vices, but how many of them control you. If you are a smoker, you know how the cravings can affect what you do. You may never have been on a long haul flight simply because you can’t have a cigarette that long. Is that the person you want to be? And cigarettes are not the only thing that can drive you mad in that way. There is sugar, fast food, spending too much time on social media, for example, all are addictions of sorts. So, start tackling the negative things in your life. It does not have to be all at once. You may want to come up with a plan of action and begin cutting down and changing your life over time. If you can eat healthier and do more exercise, you will not regret it.    

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