As a woman who has built a business, a home, and a life from the ground up, I know all too well how easy it is to slip into my masculine energy. The doing. The fixing. The pushing. The over-giving. It has served me in many ways, but it has also drained me, hardened me, and—if I’m being honest—gotten me into trouble more times than I can count.
But I am learning. Softening. Releasing.
The feminine is not weak—it is the deepest form of power. And when I embody her, my business flows, my relationships deepen, and I remember that my worth is not in how much I do but in how fully I be.
The Power of Divine Feminine Energy
In a world that rewards productivity and constant striving, many women find themselves trapped in their masculine energy—focused on external achievements, logic, and control. While these qualities are valuable, they can also lead to burnout and disconnection from the softer, more intuitive aspects of our being.
As Maegan Tintari beautifully explains in her blog post The Key to Tapping into Your Divine Feminine Energy, embracing feminine energy is about returning to flow, surrender, and the deep inner knowing that life can be abundant without constant force. She reminds us that the divine feminine is about receptivity, creativity, and embodiment—qualities that have the power to transform not just our personal well-being but also our success and relationships.
When I choose to embody my divine feminine energy, I tap into an effortless magnetism. I no longer chase; I attract. I no longer force; I allow. And when I surrender to this wisdom, life begins to unfold in ways beyond my wildest dreams.
5 Ways to Return to Your Divine Feminine
If you, like me, have been caught up in the hustle, the grind, the over-functioning, know this: Your softness is not your weakness. It is your superpower. Here are five ways I return home to my softness, my radiance, my divine feminine energy:
1. Intuitive Movement
The masculine thrives on structured workouts and measurable goals, but the feminine moves intuitively. Instead of forcing my body into rigid exercise routines, I allow myself to move in ways that feel nourishing—dancing, stretching, flowing. Movement is an embodiment practice, a way to reconnect with the body’s wisdom and express emotions that words cannot.
2. Stop Forcing Things to Work That Simply Don’t
The feminine energy trusts. She understands that what is meant for her will come with ease. That doesn’t mean avoiding effort, but it does mean surrendering to the natural flow of life. When I stop clinging to what is not aligned, I create space for what is truly meant for me.
3. Allow My Body to Rest
We live in a culture that glorifies busyness, but true feminine power lies in honoring our natural cycles. Rest is not a luxury; it is a portal to our highest selves. When I allow myself deep rest—without guilt—I return to my work and my relationships with more energy, creativity, and presence.
4. Pleasure & Receiving
The divine feminine is about receptivity—being open to life’s gifts rather than constantly chasing them. Pleasure is a powerful practice of receiving, whether it’s savoring a delicious meal, immersing in nature, or simply allowing myself to experience joy without justification. Abundance flows when we open our hearts and hands to receive.
5. Water & Energy Cleansing
Water is deeply connected to the feminine. Immersing myself in water—whether through baths, ocean swims, or even a simple shower—helps me cleanse heavy energy and reconnect with my fluid, intuitive nature. Breathwork, meditation, and ritual practices also support energetic renewal, allowing me to release what no longer serves me and reclaim my light.
Returning Home to Yourself
The journey back to your feminine energy is not about rejecting the masculine—it’s about balancing both energies within you. It’s about recognizing that your power lies not just in what you do but in who you are.
If you’re ready to dive deeper into embodiment and reclaim your divine feminine, I invite you to explore Within by Courtney Hanson—a book that has been a guiding light in my own journey.
How do you reconnect with your feminine energy? Drop your favorite practice below. ⬇️✨